Whilst holding onto someone special in our lives, we tend to ask ourselves why this seems too easy in the beginning and as the moment arises to the point where you’re finally meet that someone, you just end up kissing some other guy.
When my ‘friend’ messaged me the night before at 2am telling me she needs to talk to me, I was at first quite worried. It was mainly because she is a strong person who’s capable of being drama free. So, her being worried about something made me worried for a few seconds.
After a picnic at Maltesers’ place with BigSis, CuteDork and some other Frenchies and a friend’s birthday, I finally rushed to 50th street to meet up with this friend of mine who messaged me at 2am the night before. I was kinda surprised when her issue seems kinda small but I guess we could never really predict the level of tolerance of people. My friend, being a strong person, found it difficult to accept her making out with a guy three days before the arrival of the man in her life (with no exclusivity promised) after seven weeks of staying quite monogamous.
A human’s mind is tricky and it’s useless to have a theoretical explanation for any actions we tend to do. And it’s because of all these questions for explanations that we tend to fuck up a lot in life. With queries in our heads, we tend to think more than what’s actually there. I guess this also made me realize how I’ve totally thought too much of what I had with my online relationships I had before. Seriously, the dude she pashed is this wannabe I know who my other close friend has dated before. So, I told her not to really care about this and better not tell the man in her life about this. With no exclusivity negotiated, it’s only fair enough that she played tonsil hockey with a wannabe as a one time thing. Not worth worrying about. The conversation ended with me talking about aliens and religions, to which I found it surprising that she was interested in. Nice!
When my ‘friend’ messaged me the night before at 2am telling me she needs to talk to me, I was at first quite worried. It was mainly because she is a strong person who’s capable of being drama free. So, her being worried about something made me worried for a few seconds.
After a picnic at Maltesers’ place with BigSis, CuteDork and some other Frenchies and a friend’s birthday, I finally rushed to 50th street to meet up with this friend of mine who messaged me at 2am the night before. I was kinda surprised when her issue seems kinda small but I guess we could never really predict the level of tolerance of people. My friend, being a strong person, found it difficult to accept her making out with a guy three days before the arrival of the man in her life (with no exclusivity promised) after seven weeks of staying quite monogamous.
A human’s mind is tricky and it’s useless to have a theoretical explanation for any actions we tend to do. And it’s because of all these questions for explanations that we tend to fuck up a lot in life. With queries in our heads, we tend to think more than what’s actually there. I guess this also made me realize how I’ve totally thought too much of what I had with my online relationships I had before. Seriously, the dude she pashed is this wannabe I know who my other close friend has dated before. So, I told her not to really care about this and better not tell the man in her life about this. With no exclusivity negotiated, it’s only fair enough that she played tonsil hockey with a wannabe as a one time thing. Not worth worrying about. The conversation ended with me talking about aliens and religions, to which I found it surprising that she was interested in. Nice!
Listening to: Kelly Clarkson – If no one will listen
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