So now that GirlBFF is back, I went chez elle last night and had a sleepover. God, it was good to see her again. It's funny how I actually did miss her. When she was around, I never care about her presence cos as a best friend, I knew she'd be around me all the time but her being away for around two months, I felt like I was missing something while she was gone. It was even better that Quackface and Bumblebee were there as well. I mean, these are my best friends since I first got here so it was a pretty much good hangout though we were missing one. He'll be back next week and then we shall do another hangout.
Friends are very important to me but it's very rare that I have friends who I'm actually really comfortable around. Not to disrespect anything or anyone but I am a very spontatneous person and I love just doing random things and talk random stuffs that can bounce on and off. Some of my most treasured friends will ask me out on coffee or for a hang out and even though I would be so happy to be around them, it seems a bit boring since it's more of like a catch up on life. I love hearing stories but my most desirable hangout is when me and a friend would sit somewhere and just talk crap. Yesterday, we were all doing that and the topics were just random and the pay out was just grand. Things bounce off between the four of us.
On the other hand, I can be such a seasonal whore when it comes to friends. I've noticed I've grown a bit sick of some friends at the moment. Nah, I do not hate them. In fact, I love them but I'm trying my best to scratch out negativities or anyone that cannot lift my spirit up for the time being. And there are those who has disappointed me; although I will still be a really good friend to them, it saddens to know that they have such negativities about the people around them and would do nothing to make their ego flexible. There's nothing more attractive than someone who's nice and diplomatically social to people around him/her. So, when you have someone who doesn't like others cos of their own little opinions and hold grudges, it seems a bit time wasting in life and you just wanna say 'get over it'. But then again, who am I to judge, yeah? These people are my good friends after all. I also think that the seasonal whorage is also a time thing as well since I don't really have that much time to be around a lot of people at the same time.
Friends are very important to me but it's very rare that I have friends who I'm actually really comfortable around. Not to disrespect anything or anyone but I am a very spontatneous person and I love just doing random things and talk random stuffs that can bounce on and off. Some of my most treasured friends will ask me out on coffee or for a hang out and even though I would be so happy to be around them, it seems a bit boring since it's more of like a catch up on life. I love hearing stories but my most desirable hangout is when me and a friend would sit somewhere and just talk crap. Yesterday, we were all doing that and the topics were just random and the pay out was just grand. Things bounce off between the four of us.
On the other hand, I can be such a seasonal whore when it comes to friends. I've noticed I've grown a bit sick of some friends at the moment. Nah, I do not hate them. In fact, I love them but I'm trying my best to scratch out negativities or anyone that cannot lift my spirit up for the time being. And there are those who has disappointed me; although I will still be a really good friend to them, it saddens to know that they have such negativities about the people around them and would do nothing to make their ego flexible. There's nothing more attractive than someone who's nice and diplomatically social to people around him/her. So, when you have someone who doesn't like others cos of their own little opinions and hold grudges, it seems a bit time wasting in life and you just wanna say 'get over it'. But then again, who am I to judge, yeah? These people are my good friends after all. I also think that the seasonal whorage is also a time thing as well since I don't really have that much time to be around a lot of people at the same time.
All in all, I think I'm happy with what I've got. I've got a best friend who I come to Sydney for. I've found this best friend in Sydney and also a little group of my best friends (hahaha we used to call ourselves Leetness?? HAHAHAHA). I guess to me, these people are like the only people that would not be the victims of my seasonal whorage.
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