Plot Thickener

Whenever I watch Tv series or movies, there are so many ways that
things could be solved if only people communicate or talk it out. Like
in heroes, nathan should've told claire or his mom, angela, about his
plan way long before as opposed to keeping it all in the dark and
playing cool. This would piss me off since it helps thicken the plot
in a series and every season would lengthen, with each episode playing
the same old record. The truth is.. it DOES happen in real life.

There are many ways that I think and there are many things I do NOT
like about my grandma or grandad and vice versa. I mean, no one is
perfect but I never say it to her or mentioned it and I just kept it
all to myself. And after five years, we DO need to catch up a lot.
I've been on the low for quite sometime now and I guess my grandma
noticed that. So we had a talk. Intense, angry, lies.. you name it...
exaggerating at its best, impressing with so much desperation... but
when all is said and done, a grandma is a grandma and a grandson will
always be a grandson.

We did not solve anything but we felt so good we let some shit out of
our systems. I do not expect her to change for me and I'm pretty sure
she'd want me to be me. So, our one hour talk ended and after an hour
after that talk, it's back to being a grandma and a grandson. I do not
hate her and even if I do, it's cos I love her. For whatever it's
worth, I love her more now given I know she's as imperfect as I am.

Think about it. People love each other it's true.. but they often
mistake 'hate' as an opposition to love. This is not true. When you
hate someone, it means you love them enough to care about them. I
mean, seriously if you so called hate someone, why don't you just rub
it off your memory.. You can't, right? I've heard this somewhere
before and I fully agree with it.

There is no such thing as hatred. When you hate me, it means you love
me enough to care. There's only indifference.

My mom and grandma hate each other cos they care about each other.
Simple.... optimism rocks