Single and pretty much not really wanted to be reminded of my ‘love life’, I find myself lately avoiding questioning myself and just doing what I feel. Knowing that I’m pretty much unsettled and being one to move from one place to another, I find myself pretty much not wanting to wearing my heart up my sleeves.
Being one to be able to do anything I want with anyone, I am quite guarded by my career as an entertainer doing showbiz. Being one to be easily talked about by random people and pretty much judged and still living with my grandparents, I try to make sure whatever I end up doing is pretty discrete.
Living in a country where everyone knows one another, I find myself being more keen on flirting with those from out of the country. Working with ex-pats is pretty much fortunate I guess but at the same time, I am able to sift out some Burmese guys who aren’t really gay-groupied.
I went out for a drink with JemHolo today. This was my second time hanging out with him. Introduced through a mutual friend, I find JemHolo to be a totally awesome guy, who can converse about almost anything. Kinda impressed he knows Jem and the Hologram cartoon as well actually. I have clearly learn the real rules of attraction since JemHolo is not someone I would’ve made any effort to converse if we were both in a bar in Sydney’s stonewall. He’s totally not my type but I can’t help being pretty eager to catch up with him and I could see myself letting almost anything happen if things were to be initiated. Well, anything but a commitment. I’m not really ready to get hurt yet.
It was a good drink. Both of us got smashed and ended up going to a club where I ended up doing the robot on the dancing floor. The night ended with me sending him back to his place and me going home. No sex nor kisses, it was a good night to have had with someone who could have just used me for a one niter.
I don’t really get it and I don’t really know how to feel towards this. I just know that this is not the first time this had happened. Whenever I feel ready to not focus on any relationship or a commitment, I end up meeting really nice gay men who take their sweet time getting to know me.
This world never ceases to amaze me, with new logics and consequences lurking behind the dark corners of an incident.
Being one to be able to do anything I want with anyone, I am quite guarded by my career as an entertainer doing showbiz. Being one to be easily talked about by random people and pretty much judged and still living with my grandparents, I try to make sure whatever I end up doing is pretty discrete.
Living in a country where everyone knows one another, I find myself being more keen on flirting with those from out of the country. Working with ex-pats is pretty much fortunate I guess but at the same time, I am able to sift out some Burmese guys who aren’t really gay-groupied.
I went out for a drink with JemHolo today. This was my second time hanging out with him. Introduced through a mutual friend, I find JemHolo to be a totally awesome guy, who can converse about almost anything. Kinda impressed he knows Jem and the Hologram cartoon as well actually. I have clearly learn the real rules of attraction since JemHolo is not someone I would’ve made any effort to converse if we were both in a bar in Sydney’s stonewall. He’s totally not my type but I can’t help being pretty eager to catch up with him and I could see myself letting almost anything happen if things were to be initiated. Well, anything but a commitment. I’m not really ready to get hurt yet.
It was a good drink. Both of us got smashed and ended up going to a club where I ended up doing the robot on the dancing floor. The night ended with me sending him back to his place and me going home. No sex nor kisses, it was a good night to have had with someone who could have just used me for a one niter.
I don’t really get it and I don’t really know how to feel towards this. I just know that this is not the first time this had happened. Whenever I feel ready to not focus on any relationship or a commitment, I end up meeting really nice gay men who take their sweet time getting to know me.
This world never ceases to amaze me, with new logics and consequences lurking behind the dark corners of an incident.
Listening to: Air – Ce Matin La
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