Fuckbuddy or Friends with Benefits

What is a fuckbuddy??????

Now, this question is insanely impossible to find the right answer to, since a lot of us have different views on it depending on the way we feel and take in things. And I, myself, have had a lot of different views on this topic and I'm pretty sure it'll keep changing as I grow.

So, first of all, let's just think.. what is a non-platonic relationship????

Isn't this where you fancy someone or have a crush on him/her and you would start to get to know him. So, you click. I mean, come on, every first few minutes is quite easy if you're a mediocre smart average looking ice breaker. No witty remarks but yet the polite gestures of an introduction is there.

So, knowing it's non platonic, depending on your willpower, you either sleep with him/her or NOT. If not, you wait til you're sure that he/she becomes your boyfriend/girlfriend. If yes, well this is the thing.

Sleeping with someone is a risk that you have to take. Consequences vary and the truth is rarely heard.

(1) If you actually know this person and if this person is nice to hang out with but at the same time, either mutual or one sided, you guys would either hit it off as boyfriends/girlfriends later OR you would become a 'friends with benefits'. Don't hate the name cos come to think of it he/she IS your friend and you have fucked him/her.

(2) If you don't know them well but you SLEPT with them, now that's a fuckbuddy but only if he/she comes around for second round. So, this is the ACTUAL sexual friend who is only there for sex. If he/she doesn't come back, just think of it as a one night stand. As bad as it may sound, it's not that much of a hassle. Come to think of it. You both enjoy it and you don't wanna end up with someone who can't love you.

So, there goes my analysis on sleeping with people. I am not stating that what I wrote are facts but I can assure you that this procedure made me happy, secure and safe even if the guy I love with all my heart chucked a one night stand with me.

Well, if they don't sleep with you... don't bother...