Someone asked me once why I get along with everyone. This was not a question of 'omg you have so many friends'. It was more like 'you don't take sides'. First of all, of course I do take sides but I just don't find the need to explain how stupid the other side could be, given I know a lot about stubbornness and ego.
So, I guess the question was more about adapting. I like adapting myself to things. I told that someone that I like to stay as ok as I could with anyone. I like to see what they think of me and act accordingly to their views. So, that kinda states that I live accordingly to what others say.
Now, maybe it's because of this newfound confidence with my job and all, but I see it more because of the fact that I've been totally on my own two feet for six months, I kinda felt like I should have my own personal favorite shit. I seem to give in easily to what others please. And come to think of it, we're born alone and it's ok to be different.
This has nothing to do with being good or bad or seeing good or bad. It's more of having a unique 'you'ness I guess. Yes, it's true I can be unique at times but I just think it's about time to actually have an opinion about things and accept what others think as 'not mine' instead of 'ahh i can see your point i think that too'.
So, I guess I can still adapt but I'll stay strong to my opinions... like I shouldn't be ashamed of watching Teletubbies at 19. Yes, I've said it.... now go tell the whole world... hahaha
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I also was watching Teletubbies until my late teenage years - my excuse was that my little brother liked watching it. :D
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